And I quickly learned that Looking for Love, Seeking My Soulmate and other like female qualifiers were code for a delusional man with no interest or desire for intimacy.Although the word love did appear a number of times I did not come away feeling it would consist of much more than amiable companionship in a traveling companion for these males.It would seem for most males at POF any thoughts of being friends with their dating prospect dried up long ago. But I am equally sure the nonsuccess rate is at least 50 to 1 over the success rate.

Not only are we having difficulty finding the right romantic partner, but now there are so many online dating sites we’re not sure which one to use to help us find that partn Both sexes seem pretty unhappy at this site. Out of date photos, lying and many men that just like to post their possesions My own experience was not positive.

95% of my attempts to contact a member of the opposite sex were never answered and I sent a lot of unique and thought out 1st contact emails.

Many were deleted without being read, nor was my profile viewed.

Some were deleted following a view of my profile and that's OK.

Based on my personal experience I have to conclude a high % of the males there have no intention of actually pursuing a relationship, although that is the stated objective of 90% of the male profiles, unless a platonic conversation once or twice, followed by a quick sex act constitutes a relationship.

I had the same experience with long outdated photos on male profiles, repeatedly.

And apparently "a few extra pounds" does not mean the same thing to a man as it does to me.

Probably half of the men at POF in my state are carrying around an extra 50 to 75lbs.

POF keeps people on their site who have not been online for a year or more. First and not least is that you are not allowed to corresond with anyone in their 20s ro 30s if you are outside that age group. Even if you decied on the age range in the advanced feature you are still not allowed to seach for anyone outside 10 years of your age range.