You need to listen to the still small voice inside you, and take a leap of faith.Maybe that leap of faith is trusting your boyfriend after he cheated…or maybe it’s letting him go. Here are a few things to think about when you’re trying to read the signs you can trust your boyfriend after he cheated on you…Here are five tips for trusting your boyfriend after an affair – or even “just” online chatting with other women.

If he cheated because he wasn’t getting something from you or your relationship, then it may be easier to rebuild trust because you can change your relationship.

It isn’t easy, but you can work together to rebuild trust after cheating.

But, if he cheated because he was bored or it’s in his nature to roam, then you might not want to trust him again.

The reason he cheated may help you decide if you can trust him again.

In Why He’s Having an Affair and How to Recover, I share reason men cheat: their wives make more money than they do.

That may not be the reason your boyfriend cheated – but knowing his reasons may help you decide if you can trust him again.You can’t do all the work in figuring out why he had the affair, how he can overcome his tendency to cheat, and how to get your relationship back on track.These tips are inspired by a reader’s question about her cheating boyfriend, and they apply to all girlfriends who have boyfriends who cheated on them.“My boyfriend and I have been together for three years,” says Liz on my article on emotional affairs.“I just found out he has been talking to three other girls on the internet. ” Deciding if you can trust your boyfriend after he betrayed you is one of the most difficult – and perhaps one of the most important – decisions you’ll ever make.He says he won’t do it again but I am still not sure. Nobody can tell you if he’ll never cheat on you again.